I was shocked. Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels (49933 Views), Wife Quarrels With Husband, Dumps Six-month-old Baby On Waste / Funny Ways Couples Settle Their Quarrels / Advice : My Elder Brothers' Wife Quarrels Me Unneccesarily (2) (3) (4), (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (26) (Reply) (Go Down), (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (26) (Reply), Italian Based Nigerian Stranded In The Village As Ladies Refuse To Marry Him / Video: Of The Kids Kissing In A Lagos Church Compound / Divorcing Man Applies For Custody Of His Wifes Breasts, Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10). SAN FRANCISCO (Reuters) - A man who intentionally spat at another can be charged with criminal assault, a U.S. appeals court ruled on Wednesday. There is a lot to be said for a nice, kind, funny, sweet man who does not look like a catalogue model or a rock star and who thinks he is bloody lucky to have you. WebWe are back and stronger than ever - took some time to reflect and hear from God! Colleague 1: It does show a certain disregard and scorn for conventional strategies. Allow them to support you and your children at this time. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here). In that culture and time, spitting in ones face was considered to be the strongest thing you could do to show utter disgust, repugnance, dislike, or hatred for someone. Its seriously disgusting, and you should throw the whole man away. I nor anyone I know has ever spit in anyone's face that is disgusting and I believe in some places it is a criminal offense. On a less formal note, it is also considered an incredibly dirty thing done only by the most vile scum. 5) response to a people deep in struggle. Did that conflict reveal that your love for them was consistent, unwavering, unshaken, and unaffected or that you have a fickle love that is quickly turned off when people dont respond to you the way you wished they would? I still get choked up remembering that day. Press J to jump to the feed. Throughout that entire service, I argued with the Lord. You know the options you have,weigh them and make moves asap! I really am in disbelief over this. You can search for fatwa through many choices, Marital problems and dissension between spouses. by sylviaplath Sun Mar 27, 2016 4:02 am, by Smelljasmine Mon Mar 28, 2016 3:59 am, by sylviaplath Mon Mar 28, 2016 7:19 pm, by Smelljasmine Mon Mar 28, 2016 10:35 pm, by Smelljasmine Mon Apr 18, 2016 2:41 am, Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 3 guests. I am so sorry he treated you this way How awful to start the day like this!!! New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. I guess only I can determine how much I can take. I understand you been with him for 5 years but even if you were with him for 20 years don't you feel you deserve better? It is THE most disrespectful thing he could think of doing to you. WebIn that culture and time, spitting in ones face was considered to be the strongest thing you could do to show utter disgust, repugnance, dislike, or hatred for someone. He became the perfect husband shortly after he hit me for the last time 5 months ago now. I always tell him its not right for him to do that but he never listens, please answer my question before it gets out of hand. 1) Ole Miss clearly lacks institutional control -- it spit in the face of the rules and was unabashed about doing so, daring someone 2) The Toronto Raptors do not merely spit in the face of prosperity. Fuck that. Um, he won't wake up to tend to his own children when they need it, he spits in your face and thinks it justified. The only reason that would be okay is if it was something you agreed upon before it happening, like in a sexual context. Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. Forgive me for being on-again, off-again in my love. Allow them to support you and your children at this time. What made it even harder for me to give this gift was that this church had acted maliciously toward our church in the past. It's like he doesn't know when to stop. That is the ultimate in disrespect. No woman with self-respect would ever allow anyone to spit in her face. Even our then Pastor refused to believe me. Thats abusive behaviour. Id respond exactly as if theyd hit me. A lot of the other answers read like theyre making excuses for abusers. No, out +1 Spitting at someone is one of the most vile, contemptuous, degrading and disgusting things one human being can do to another. Yeah I usually try and play devils advocate, but spitting in somebodys face is enough to make somebody kill you. In one of the nations most grotesque events, supposedly unbiased journalists gather to cosplay as Hollywood stars and give each other awards for partisan reporting. Is that long enough to trust him, does him spitting in my face just prove he still has no respect for me? I don't forgive people when they spit in my face. Because that is what will happen if you stay. Argued for it being ok. Never did it again. I'm sorry I don't know whether to laugh or cry at this your story. We both have calmed down. 16) Republicans rewarded a candidate who loves to whip up the savageness of man, who spits in the face of gentleness. We think of motorized bikes 18) Hence the flurry of road upgrades. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. var dayarray=new Array("Sunday","Monday","Tuesday","Wednesday","Thursday","Friday","Saturday") Please leave him before his behavior escalates. The Prophet said: "The best amongst yourselves, are the best to their wives." Also, that is assault. Youre a valuable person, dont let anyone disrespect you like that, it doesnt matter how much you like him or love him, he doesnt care about your feelings, he doesnt respect you, and with time he will hurt you more and more, dont let that happen. I risked everything, lost everything and had to start from scratch, literally. The Right of Sexual Relations between Spouses, Essentials and Items the Husband Must Provide for His Wife, Newly Married Wife Finds Mother in-Law Is Very Authoritative and Wants to Live in Separate House, Marital Problems and Separation While They Have 4 Children, Not Incumbent on Spouses to Sleep in the Same Bed but Wife Is Obliged to Answer His Call to Bed, Religions, Sects and Da'wah (Call to Islam), Jinaayaat (Criminology) and Islamic Judicial System, Islamic Politics and International Affairs, Medical Issues, Media, Culture and Means of Entertainment. One scholar notes that there could have been one hundred or more men in this crowd! It spits in the face of everyone who judges people without knowing them. Your browser does not support the audio element. Cherry did what she thought was best at the time, thinking her H would change. Couldnt he have done any better than this? When I heard how he viewed the sizable gift Id given, I was quite shocked. And just because he tells you you don't know how lucky you are to have his nasty, hurtful, abusive self on your hands, doesn't mean he's right. This is babaric and disgusting. male And why me? All rights reserved. 99.9% of our arguments or misunderstandings because we dont seem to communicate well. Spitting at you, threatening you, treating your other DC badly, being unsupportive about PND - this is unacceptable behaviour, full stop. When you spit into someone's face it's like saying that person is s**t without throwing a punch. Just as the Spirit of God empowered Jesus to love people consistently, regardless of what they did or didnt do, the Holy Spirit can empower you to do the same. var day=mydate.getDay() If I could find something else wrong with him, I might not have such a struggle with my choices. He has refused to go see a doctor for any kind of mood disorder, he took ritalin as a child and hated the side effects. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. Don't beat yourself up over what you did or didn't do, what caused it, etc. Walk out now. Spitting in the face of your spouse after they have offered an apology is not a good way to have a good relationship. These religious leaders didnt stop with just humiliating Jesus. There is no joy to compare with the joy that comes from being obedient! The Fora platform includes forum software by XenForo, http://talkaboutmarriage.com/general-relationship-discussion/50152-our-blog.html#post873339, VerticalScope Inc., 111 Peter Street, Suite 600, Toronto, Ontario, M5V 2H1, Canada. He's coming home in a hour. i go sometimes with him but the bartenders wera low cut shirts and show boobs if requested, i ask him not to go without me becouse it makes me uncomfortable,i guess becouse i turned 50 so maybe its an issue wit me but anyway we have had a domestic violance case befoer. So many heartfelt talks, so many dreams. Have you tried spitting on him? Lord, thank You for being such a good example of love that is unshaken and unaffected by other peoples actions. var mydate=new Date() I dont necessarily think it matters what the context was but for some reason Im able to dismiss the behavior. kulyie: If you know your worth,if you know how inestimably valuable you are you will not reduce yourself to a level where anybody will spit on you.its obvious you lack Go to our stickied post for more details! when I was sleeping my wife turned her phone on and the light from her phone bothered my eyes so I asked her They eventually got my car back for me, after telling them my situation. He appealed the conviction, arguing that spitting did not constitute an assault, but the U.S. 9th Circuit Court of Appeals disagreed. That's assault. Posted April 11, 2011 You are having a conversation with someone you care about and this person Has there ever been a time in your life when you felt like someone you tried to help later turned around and spit in your face? The same Holy Spirit who lived in Jesus now lives in me and just as the Spirit of God empowered Jesus to love everyone consistently, now the Holy Spirit empowers me to do the same! Colossians 1:28, 2023 Rick Renner Ministries. So I guess unless it was somehow an absolute accident dump him. 249Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland. I think nearly everyone has felt taken advantage of and spit on at some point or another. 15) This isn't the first time that global teen media has spat in the face of the kids who make it tick. 9) operators to ignore, disregard or disobey the ruling of the court will amount to spitting in the face of the Court". Its inclusive of rejection, isolation, and other forms of diminution and dismissal. All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft, Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column. The pastor told his leaders, Look at this puny little check Pastor Rick gave us! I would slap the shit out of her.What a vile action and coming from your wife, Even more disgusting. if (daym<10) daym="0"+daym Get out, and do it for your kids. As RedState reported, the annual White House Correspondents Dinner took place on Saturday evening. female I won't be surprised if some men come to this thread to ask OP what she did to provoke the man into spitting on her or to 'advice' her to be a good wife by being more submissive and prayerful and non complaining. I would make a domestic claim whenever he does spit on you. But first they wanted to take some time to personally make sure He suffered before He died. I had three days to pack what I could into my two cars, with my three dogs and I lived in a Walmart parking lot. You are the CEO of your life. only he can choose who he wants to be in life. WOW . As I sat in there, Gods Spirit spoke to my heart and instructed me to sow a sacrificial seed into their new building program. for the Q&A section. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. I can't think of anything that can be more contemptuous than being spat on and i cannot understand why anyone will endure/live with such for as much as 2 years. He devoted the next part of his staff meeting to discussing all the things he didnt like about me and our church. its a slum bar, i mean. Lets be honest: there are many passive and subtle ways that This is a very clear sign of hatred, anger, and disrespect. I am sure that our competitors will not like it. "what if the black mark isn't gone after all? His love for them was unwavering unshaken and unaffected by their wrong actions. Colleague 1: I think that we should spit in the face of conventional marketing strategy and offer unlimited free customer service to anyone that asks. Therefore, you should endeavour to advise your husband and remind him of Allaah, and there is no harm if you seek the help of righteous and pious people to admonish him; it might be that he will take heed and stop behaving in such a manner. I would like to know if my husband spit in my face to punish me (even though its nothing bad that I do) is it aloud in the Islam to do that, and if not aloud will he be punished. It's only going to get worse. Help me become rock-solid and unwavering in my love for others, including those who havent treated me too nicely. Especially when someone does it an var montharray=new Array("January","February","March","April","May","June","July","August","September","October","November","December") He threw the proposal on the table, told me to never contact him again. He was choking me when the police came, and I remember whispering to him "I can't breathe". ok ive been married 16 yrs i realy feel my husband is honest, maybe it me ,anyway he has 2 single friends and i mean very single. I would not continue living with him either unless he puts a stop to it. To make it worse, the offender would usually spit hard and close to the persons face, making it all the more humiliating. Joe Biden Spit in Your Face at the White House Correspondents' Dinner. To me, spitting in a spouses face shows a serious level of contempt. If your relationship has deteriorated to that point then in my admittedly ama For instance, when we dedicated our church building the first church to be built in sixty years in our city it was a moment of great rejoicing. When someone spattered his spit on another persons face, that spit was meant to humiliate, demean, debase, and shame that person. definitely in the midst of an argument. He's threatening to come up to my job. Since its during an argument, understandably the emotions are high . It's not the worst thing in the world., women have shot, stabbed, kicked, burn This is a bot message. To put the seriousness of spitting into perspective, on the hierarchy of force used by security and law enforcement here it sits squarely in the realm of "put them down, hard, as quickly as possible". Anonymous. It is normally used to picture a person who is violently beaten. . We're hosting a Reddit Talk Live event on Tuesday the 21st of September at 11am PST (2pm EDT/ 7PM GMT) with relationship expert Kerry Cohen, and we'd love for you to join us! They are now dear friends, they are more than friends, they are family to me, and God only knows where I'd be without them. Cases Get away from him because if he does this he's already crossed the line into assault and more is inevitable. I think you owe your family a huge apology, you were wrong - they weren't. Forget the fact that he's good-looking and has a "presence" that attracts other women - that doesn't make him worth more, it actually makes him less of a keeper, because he'll think he can hold that over you to keep you in line, and he'll be more likely to cheat anyway. So now that you have reported him to everyone and he has refused to get help or listen, what do you intend to do? I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. It is also a show of weakness. How about you? 8) If this gets into the hands of foreign nationals it would be an abomination and spitting in the face of all those who fought and died for this country. By clicking Accept, you consent to the use of ALL the cookies. Personally, for me, spitting in someone's face and calling them a cunt is as bad as punching them in the face. But what hurt the most was that the pastor had put us down and publicly made fun of us in front of his staff and leadership. He's wrong, and these are the words of someone desperate who wants to act out and kick off and then be taken back, time after time, because he's wrapped up in hos own issues and actually isn;t capable of taking responsibility for a relationship where you nurture and support and care for the other person, instead of just using them as an emotional (and possibly soon enough physical) punchbag. But in any other context that's not okay and you shouldn't put up with that. Honey, get out while your children are still young enough to see that life can be lived without abuse. It means that the guy has no respect for his girlfriend whatsoever, probably also he lacks I worked and continued to be homeless, living in my car and showering at my now-husband's place, while I saved money for my own dwelling. You are human, demand to be treated like one! I really don't. Where there is a will, there's a way. Because thats the only people i know men treat with contempt.you deserve better than this,because i cant imagine anyone spitting on me,men,whoever he is he will pay for damages and his entire family will go through hell before i back off.he will have to apologize prostrating wherever he did that act including his parents otherwise i will use everything am worth to reduce him to a nonentity. All in all, the North Carolina appellate case law suggests that spitting on a person or even spitting towards a person and missing would be an assault. Finally, the Spirit of God asked me, Are you willing to sow a seed for peace with this church? Though it is often accidental, it can be induced through deliberate practice. We all know we arent a perfect 10, but when you respect someone, Anonymous. I confess that what other people have done to me doesnt affect my desire or my commitment to love them. You have loved me with a consistent love, even in times when Ive acted badly and didnt deserve it. The issue I was wrestling with was giving a gift to this church that had treated us with contempt for so long. .. He had hit me before too. I was truly deeply appalled and shocked. Puerto Madero N9710, Oficina 22, Pudahuel - Santiago | saudi arabian airlines flight 763 cvr transcript So why dont you take a few minutes today to pray about the people who have let you down or disappointed you? Its disgusting. reader, zay zay+, writes (10 July 2009): A Add your answer to this question! It just gets worse, so get out before it does. I remember feeling as if I had been spit on and as the years passed, this same pastor spit on us many more times. Upon hearing this, the high priest ripped his clothes and screamed, Blasphemy! as all the scribes and elders lifted their voices in anger, demanding that Jesus die (Matthew 26:66). Talk About Family, Marriage and Relationships. After a YEAR of this I finally got my own home, and moved in just days before Christmas. What a strange way to render thanks to One who had done so much for them! Your husband spits on you,says you look like poo, pours your stew into the drain and damages d door when angry? See How To Advertise. And it's beside the point. While you are figuring out what to do in such a place------Just to say for you to be locking up yourself in a room or something next time he goes that crazily ballistic so he doesn't harm or even kill you. Honestly, he is only steps away from physical abuse, and I know that for a fact because my ex used to spit in my face during arguments. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Clean my face with anti-septic wetwipes. Move into a hotel. Call a lawyer. Get a divorce. Spitting in someones face isnt as physically violent as This was an extremely humiliating scene! But when I heard what this pastor did next, I was literally stunned. How to respond when someone spits in your partner's face Look at self Answer (1 of 3): Smile and ask her to spit on other side. Been getting it daily ,my wife is going thru some form of dementia I would say demon possesion.what she seeks to save she destroys, I'm ready for d And now the Lord was telling me to sow a large gift into this same church? Walmart even towed one of my cars after 7 days while I was out looking for a job. Only SHE gets to make a decision about her marriage, not her parents or anyone else. Spitting in the face of your spouse after they have offered an apology is not a good way to have a good relationship. I know that, but when it's happening that's what goes through my mind. what if all that stuff from before actually was not enough to remove it? Matthew 26:67,68 says, Then did they spit in his face, and buffeted him; and others smote him with the palms of their hands, saying, Prophesy unto us, thou Christ, Who is he that smote thee?. I would spit at him back but then again that might provoke him to hurt you. Writing that check was difficult, but once it was written, my heart simply flooded with joy because I had been obedient. No I don't want them to, this is not normal behavior, I know that. Spitting in your SOs face is completely disrespectful and unforgivable, please break up with him before he truly hurts you. Dont be a doormat. John 1:11 tells us, He came unto his own, and his own received him not. Although these men who spit on and hit Jesus refused to acknowledge Him, He still went to the Cross and died for them. You can't. These cookies do not store any personal information. When he looked me dead in the eye and said "Good" I knew that he was going to kill me. If you stay, you might as well tell him to abuse you and disrespect you. I'm watching my children grow up, I want them to be happy, healthy and safe in their little worlds. In the end, it was worth it. So to the poster, why do you stay with him? If your spouse truly can't control their temper, then you need to leave and stay with someone safe. Go to our stickied post for more details. This is a time where you need to be very mad and comunicate that either he apoligise or get out. No apology, no acknowledgement of it being a horrible thing. Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! Spitting in someones face isnt as physically violent as punching them, (sure) but its still a form of physical and emotional violence that would have me smashing the eject button on any such relationship. And one by one, each of these so-called spiritual leaders, clothed in their religious garments, walked up to Jesus and spit in His face! Out of these cookies, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. Its horrible and I cannot believe you are taking it so lightly. On this one you simply have to stand up for yourself. How could anyone say the gift we gave was puny? We ask Allaah to exalt his mention as well as that of his family and all his companions. It's not too late to call the cops, I did not know that it was considered battery. Why? I hope you don't think I have a problem with finding a man. 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